i don’t get how people can be like they are.
doesn’t he understand he’s breaking my fucking heart when he does this?
how am i supposed to be happy knowing i’m not worth trying long distance? that we will come to an end, it’s already decided, when he goes on everyday telling me he loves me?
that’s not how you act when you honestly love a person.
love is selfish. you don’t want to give up something you love. you are not willing to, unless it is honestly what makes the other person happy.
love makes you sacrifice certain things for a time in order to grow in the end. it wills you to at least TRY any alternative that doesn’t sever loves bond, before calling it quits.
love is also selfless. it compels you to do what you can to make the other person happy. to try and understand the other persons needs, to search for a compromise. to question into their thoughts and feelings if you don’t already know them.
when you tell someone you love them, it is a promise to continue to love them in the future. it tells them that you can see yourself with them in the future.
love is not short lived. it can be pulled and twisted until it breaks, but it does not give up in circumstances of hardship.
why doesn’t he understand? why doesn’t he just ask? he’s tearing me apart. i don’t know how i can go on with him if he’s only going to break me in the end.
but i love him, so i will try.
why can’t he do the same for me?
